Facing Away Lap Embrace Position Gives Her the Reins

How to do it

Have him sit back against the bed or a pillow stack with his legs extended or bent slightly.

Have her straddle him and face away from him, then lower herself slowly onto him while holding his thighs for balance.

Let her set a slow pace by rocking forward and back, using her knees and thighs to control the depth.

Have him lean back on his hands and reach around to stroke her hips, belly or thighs while she moves.

Switch to a gentler motion with small circles whenever either partner wants to slow down and talk or kiss.

Tips

Use plenty of pillows behind his back so he can relax and stay comfortable through the whole position.

Keep the movements unhurried at first and let her decide when to speed up or change the angle.

Add lubricant early so the sensation stays smooth and comfortable for both partners.

Check in with each other often, since the reverse angle can hide facial cues and makes conversation easier when paused.